Luahan Cinta: Masalah Cinta

Artikel ini adalah luahan hati yang diterima di emel kami dan dijawab oleh Misz Chinta. Jika anda mempunyai masalah dalam percintaan/perhubungan jangan segan-silu untuk menghubungi Misz Chinta disini. Misz Chinta sedia cuba mendengar luahan yang terbuku di hati anda dan membantu memberikan pendapat untuk setiap masalah anda 🙂

Nama saya june. Saya ada sedikit masalah yang nak di kongsikan bersama. Saya kira semuanya bermula dari saya sendiri. Sekarang saya mempunyai masalah dengan pasangan saya. Saya tak pasti sama ada apa yang berlaku benar atau tidak. Saya dengan pakwe saya sekarang sudah tak seperti dahulu. Dia dah jarang menghubungi saya @ hantar sms kepada saya. Sekarang ni, saya lah yang kerap menghubungi dia dan hantar text kepada dia. Dia memang tak pernah membalas pesanan nringkas saya. Alasannya, dia sibuk, futsal tak pun keluar dengan keluarga. Jarak membuatkan keadaan makin sukar bagi saya. Baru-baru ini, saya ada berhubung dengan pakwe saya. dia angkat kol saya & ada balas sms masa raya haji.Lepas dari tu dia pulang ke kelantan, lebih kurang 2 minggu saya kol dia dia tak angkat. Baru-baru ni, saya kol dia, dia kata dia dah beli phone baru. Tapi keadaan tetap sama. Dia ta pernah kol saya mahupun sms. Tapi saya cekalkan hati dengan menghubungi dia. Sebab saya sayang dekat dia. Walaupun sebelum ni, saya bnayak melukai hati dia. Saya akui saya pernah menduakan dia secara diam-diam. Tapi sekarang saya sedar yang saya perlukan dia dalam hidup saya & saya mencintai dia. Saya pernah tanya pada dia, dia sayang saya @ tidak. tapi dia enggan menjawab. Yang dia mampu bagitahu saya, tunggu dia dapat kerja di KL baru dia jawab soalan saya. Alasan dia, dia tak nak nanti ada sahaja benda yang tidak kena. Sebagai seorang perempuan, saya punya harga diri. Bila dia melayan saya sedemikian, saya rasa betapa redah harga diri saya. Tapi di sebabkan saya yakin dia lah untuk saya, saya tetap menghubungi dia. Walaupun keadaan sudah tak seperti dulu. Sekarang ni dia ada d KL, katanya nak beli barang kawen untuk adik dia yang sudah lama bertunang. Tapi saya tak tahu sama ada saya dapat @ tidak jumpa dia. Saya takut bila dah tiba masa, dia tak dapat jumpa saya. Saya tetap menunggu kerana dia pernah menyatakan hasrat yang dia nak jumpa saya. Saya tetap menunggu sebab dia masih angkat panggilan saya. Saya tetap menunggu sebab saya sangat mencintai dia. Saya perlukan ZONCINTA memberi pendapat kepada saya apa yang patut saya lakukan. Saya rasa sungguh terseksa sekarang ni. Saya perlu tahu sama ada dia masih sayang saya atau tidak. Saya tak nak dia hanya memberi harapan kepada saya yang kononnya dia mencintai saya tetapi dia hanya nak balas dendam. Harap ZONCINTA dapat memberi pendapat.
June

Hai June,

Berdasarkan apa yang you sebutkan itu I agak risau sebenarnya. Sorry to say, tetapi tidak menjawab telefon, berbohong dan mengelak daripada bertemu adalah antara indikator negatif dalam sesebuah relationship. Ya, mungkin si dia ada menelefon anda sekali-sekala tapi adakah ianya ikhlas atau terpaksa dan sekadar menghilangkan boring semata-mata?

Sekarang, tak kiralah sama ada you atau dia yang salah, you kena persoalkan diri you dahulu mengapa si dia mula menjauhi you. Adakah kerana si dia dah tahu you menduakan dia suatu ketika dahulu? Atau sikap you yang kurang memahami situasi si dia?

For the time being, all you need is confronting with him. Bersemuka. Cuba cari masa yang sesuai untuk you bertemu dengannya tak kiralah walau sekejap mana. You kena akui apa kecurangan you dahulu, dan luahkan isihati you yang you tanggung selama ini atas kelakuannya yang acuh tak acuh. Serta di situ jugalah you dapat menilai si dia itu secara lebih tepat lagi. Daripada percakapannya, bahasa tubuh dan pancaran matanya, you akan dapat meneka adakah si dia benar-benar jujur atau sebaliknya.

Kuatkan semangat, jangan merasa rendah diri kerana diperlakukan sebegini. Sebaliknya dongak ke hadapan dan tunjukkan bahawa you juga punya kekuatan untuk memperjuangkan hak you sebagai wanita, pengorbanan you, dan cinta you…

p/s: Kononnya jejaka Kelantanese ni manja dengan ibu mereka. Dan ibu mereka pula hanya mahukan menantu orang Kelantan sahaja.

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13 thoughts on “Luahan Cinta: Masalah Cinta”

  1. Bf I pon cmtu jgk.. dyer dh jarang sms I skrng.. dlu dyer x cm tu.. so,I yg mlekn sms dyer dlu tpi kdng2 dyer x bls.. dyer pnh jgk kte dyer xder krdt.. dyer hnye send ‘hi,please call me back’ tu jer untuk gtau kter yg dyer xder krdt.. dlu,I pnh wat dyer kecil hati sbb I tipu dyer.. but I dh minta maaf dn gtau dyer kbnrn.. xtau lah dyer nk prcye ker x.. and then beberapa hri kemudian dyer kte dyer xkecil hati lgi but semenjak tu dyer dh mla jarang sms I.. dyer sms jgk ktorang tpi xselalu cm dlu.. klau I sms dyer mse siang,dyer kte dyer mesti trtdo sbb ktenyer penat coz baru balik dri sekolah.. klau dlu,mse siang2 ni,dyer yg sms kter dlu tau tpi skrng hmm dyer mcm x syng kter jer.. I prnh jgk kte kat dyer yg dyer syng I ker x?dyer kte dyer syng I.. dn I pnh jga kte kat dyer dlu,’u kter kwn biase jer.. I tngk,u cm dh bosan sms ngn I jer..’tpi dyer kte dyer syng I tpi klau dyer syng I,knp dyer jarang sms I lgi.. dyer x cm dlu lgi selalu sms I.. or maybe dyer xtau nk kte aper ker?atau sngje xbls?.. hmm..

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  2. kter ni x prnh brjmpa lgi.. dyer tetibe jer dpt no phone I.. dyer skrng ni sekolah kat johor dn I plk kat sabah.. entah cmner plk tetibe I boleh minat kat dyer dn dyer kte dyer pon cmtu jgk.. kmi just sekadar sms,call,tkr gmbr jer.. penh jgk I kte nk break@clash ngn dyer dlu tpi dyer xnk break.. sbnrnya I syng dyer.. klau dyer xbls mcj I pon.. I dh mla rse sakit hati dn rse xsdp hati.. n then berfikiran yg bkn2 such dyer dh bosan ngn kter ker atau dh ader gf len ker cmtu.. dyer kter I ni ske buruk sangka ngn dyer.. klau cmtu,kter ni rse2nyer ade jodoh x?bantulah kter.. terima kasih

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  3. saya tak tau sama ada awk boleh beri pandangan kepada masalah saya.saya seorang siswazah muda yg bkerja dalam kumpulan profesinal.saya telah bertunang atas permintaan ibu bapa namun hati saya teros teringat kepada bekas kekasih yang bakal melangsungkan perkahwinan tak lama lagi.hati saya berdolak dalik.saya dalam dilema.walaupun cuba menerima hakikat dan haluan masing masing.namu..mungkin ini dikatakan hati dan cinta sukar untuk di PADAM.

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    • Tiada siapa dapat memadamkan api cinta dear. Bagaimanapun u patut belajar melupakannya dan menyayangi tunang dan bakal suami u. Belajarlah menerima cinta dari tunang u dan mencintainya kembali 🙂

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  4. Hai. Saya ingin mmbuat luahan tentang masalah cinta. Sya pernah mnyukai seseorang semasa saya berada di tingkatan 1. Walaupun orang slalu katakan yang dia tu seorang player tpi,saya tetap juga mnyukai dia.. Sya pun tidak pasti mngapa tpi apa yang saya tahu,dia sangat comel buat saya.. hmalangnya,sya cuma dipermainkan oleh si dia dan ada satu masa,saya bergaduh dgn bot dia.. Disebabkan oleh perasaan marah dgn kejadian tu,saya maki dia..dia tdk bls mesej.. Pkara ni seringkali berlaku di antara kami tpi saya masih tetap menunggu .Apabila kami sdah memasuki tingkatan 3,saya sdah mula mnyedari kalo dia lah cinta pertama saya.. Tpi benda yg sama tetap berlaku.. Pelajaran saya mula merosot ,saya mula belajar untuk merokok dan ponteng sekolah disebabkan kekecewaan yg teramat sangat.. Sampailah sekarang saya berumur 20tahun dan saya masih tetap menunggu dengan penuh harapan.. itu mmbuat saya sangat sedih apabila sya tidak dapat lagi bbual dgn dia sperti sblmnya.. Sya merasa sangat kehilangan..

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  12. Tak byk sy nak tny.
    Ini je.
    Kenapa lelaki kerap chat?hari2.
    Tp dr cara msg mcm layan x layan.
    Selalu bluetick.
    Tp setiap hr chat.
    Pelik.
    Htr lagu jiwang bagai.
    Tp dah layan dia chat dia pulak mcm nak tak nak.
    Nape aee?iee geram pulak

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